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Problems
are like many things. They belong to someone. This is one
of the most confusing aspects in relationships. It causes
us great distress when we take on problems that don’t belong
to us. When they don’t belong to us, we don’t have the
power to solve the problem. Children / teenagers are great
at giving parents their problems. Our challenge is knowing
how to not take problems that belong to them and how to
equip them to manage their problems on their own. That is
good parenting.
It
also causes great difficulty when we avoid dealing with problems
that belong to us. They don’t go away and they just continue to
nag at us. When a problem belongs to us, we have the capability
to deal with it, and when we do, it relieves the stress we
have. e- Parent Coach helps you know how to determine
who is the owner of the problem you want to focus on. This
gives you direction on how to deal with the problem.
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